Most of the time, ladies who are mature enough to get
married find it difficult to find their soul mates. Especially the Christians,
they always pray to God to give them the best man to marry. The case is that
some of the Christian ladies are selective, yet they still pray to God to give
them the best man. Real men get married to women based on their characters and
seriousness in life. A lot of ladies think that if they appear good in nature
by applying makeup and wearing hot dresses, that will let them get attracted by
men, but that is a bad perception they have that they don't know of. We have
been able to gather some information about how to identify a male as a real
man. This article will help ladies understand and also get their desired men to
marry.
The following are five things you should know about real
men.
1. Real men don't propose to a lady at first sight. If a
man is interested in a lady, he will not propose to her in the first place. He
will befriend the lady in order to know more about her, especially her
character, her family, her friends, what she likes and dislikes, and among
others. By doing all these things, he will be able to see the true character of
the lady. Then he will propose to her if he thinks her behavior is good enough
to stay with her, and vice versa. This should be a precaution for ladies who
accept men's proposals at first sight. Such men will use you for nothing and
dump you as trash at the end.
2. Real men are always busy. Real men are always glued to their goals and ambitions. Thus, they don't let anything be an obstacle to prevent them from achieving their targets. So, when they find themselves in a relationship, they don't pay too much attention to their girlfriends but rather are on their way to succeed in life. In this case, attention is lost in the relationship, which at times constitutes a breakup. Moreover, ladies think that their guys are not serious about the relationship because they don't call, text, chat, or visit them regularly. For this matter, they (ladies) run in search of another guy to date. Ladies should bear in mind that these busy guys are real men when it comes to relationships. Therefore, they should have patience whenever they get such guys. After they (men) have achieved their desired aims and ambitions, they will always have time for you. This should be a precaution for ladies who run away from these busy guys.
3. Real men don't love a lady by her appearance. Real men
don't look at the beauty and shape of women. The beauty and shape of a woman
don't attract real men to fall in love with her, but rather the good traits she
exhibits. Brotherly advice goes to the young ladies who always seek ways to let
their breasts and bums grow and look attractive in good shape.
4. Real men don't spend too much in a relationship. Ladies
love it when their guys provide them with everything they need. And when they
(men) do not marry them, they will be saying abusive words to them. Not knowing
that, their guys had already spent all the money to be used for the engagement
and the wedding. Real men do not spend money in relationships because they
perceive that they have not married yet and it is not necessary for them to
take on the responsibilities of a husband. What they know actually is that they
are dating to study each other; if they are compatible with each other, then
they get married. but not to take care of the ladies as a husband does.
5. Real men don't have any sexual activities during dating or courtship. Ladies think that when they offer their boyfriends or fiancés sex, they will let them love them and marry them. This is a misconception they have because they don't know the facts behind it. It is really wrong for a lady to offer her partner sex because of love. Real men will never ask for sex when they are not married. If a man loves a lady, he will not have sex with her but rather marry her and have sex with her. My dear ladies, take note of this and be vigilant in any relationship you will find yourself in.
Above are some of the things ladies should know about real men. Surely, this will help them find their soulmate.
